Diss For Sale!

So if you're half like me, you'd find some amount of ri-dick-ulousness in how young women feel they are fat when they are nowhere NEAR being obese. Chubby cheeks does not equal to overweight or fatness, something I feel disgusted to address and validate each time I come in conversations with people of this ilk. These girls, all said and done, have this image of what is considered desirable both fed into their minds by popular culture and their peers/family/strangers. So it may be that they dont think of themselves as fat, but when people tell you you are, sometimes you have no comeback left. This diss for them, for the girls who have not been affected by body dysmorphic disorder and who can still tell the difference between fat and not fat. This is for you if you would like to serve a diss to those people that plant insecurities in your mind.

Therefore, the next time someone comes up to you and says, "going overboard on the fries, are we? remember, a minute on the lips, a lifetime on the hips", well, this is your ready-beer response to them.

"I may need to lose weight,

But you need to gain a brain."

Addendum: "Pity its not something that you can just attain by going on a diet eh?"
Addendum: "Also, I'm not from planet Photoshop."

Abeer Appropriates!

So my name is Abeer and I was born in October.

Co-incidence?

I think not.

Mama O Mama!

. So while I was working on something, Mama came over to just see what my furrowed brows were all about. I showed her that I couldn't decipher someone's hand writing to which she responded with something inane. I said, "Mama, you're such a loser." She said, "at least I'm not a great loser like you."

 

. Following that I told my mum, "aaja mere jiggar ka tudka" (come here, piece of me) and tried to nuzzle her into kisses. Then I realised that it would mean that I loved her and I dont want her having that hallucination, so I quickly said, "nahi nahi, mein aap se itna pyaar karti ho jitna ke koi apne donated kidney se karta hai" (no no, i love you as much as much as someone would love their donated kidney). The implication here obviously was that she was not close to me, and that I would give her if I had to. Unfortunately for me, the diss went down the drain when she replied with, "haan, kyunki jab hum kisse se itna pyaar karte hai, toh hum chahte hai ke woh cheez kar kissi ko mile" (yeah, because when you love something so much, you want everyone to know how wonderful it is).

. My mum walked past me, while I was writing this and went, "Allah, kaise baas aa rahi hai na?" (o God, such a bad stink no?). I replied, "aap nahaye kyun nahi aaj?" (why didnt you take a bath today?). To which she went, "mein ne naha liya. TU ne nahin nahaya! Toh matlab tere me se baas aarahi hai" (I had a bath, but you didnt, which must mean that its coming from you!). This diss HAD to take place the ONE day I forget to take a bath. Such rubbish fate.

The Weirdos Always Win

"So I know you'd never believe this looking at me right now, but I used to get picked on in school too... They'd call me weird. I was weird, fun weird. 

But this is the funny thing about growing up. For years and years, everybody's desperately afraid to be different in any way. 

And then suddenly, almost overnight, everybody wants to be different. 

And that, is where we win."

- Danny Zucker, Modern Family, 2oo9

(dialogue between Mitchell Pritchett & Manny Delgado, "Starry Night", Season 1 Episode 18)

Realists & Dreamers

"There are dreamers, and there are realists in this world. You'd think the dreamers would find the dreamers and the realists would find the realists but more often than not, the opposite is true.

You see, the dreamers need the realists to keep them from soaring too close to the sun. 

And the realists? 

Well, without the dreamers, they might not ever get off the ground."

- Ben Karlin, Modern Family, 2o11
(voiceover by Cameron Tucker, 'Punkin Chunkin', Season 3 Episode 9)

Abeerism.

I think the saddest thing about me is my imagined belief that when I'm typing particularly furiously and in the zone, and there's usually a song accompanied by heavy pianos ringing in my ear, that I think that I'm actually playing that piano tune myself. 

No. 

 

Actually its more like whenever I hear the faintest sign of a piano tune that I like, I start typing to that tune, in my head imagining that I'm sitting in front of a baby grand, looking all immersed and consumed by the ever-so-important tune that I'm playing.

Adulation however, is rather hard to find.

I know you think I'm sad. I'm with you.

Mama O Mama!

2 things happened today, and both extremely memorable.

. While Mama and I were in bed this afternoon, we were talking about something that had to do with Papa and she said something and I went, "dont bully my Papa okay. you're such a bad wife, you're going to go to Hell for not thinking positive things about your husband"*. And my mum goes, "o, so agar mein burri biwi hoon, to tu kitne burri beti hai yeh kabhi socha hai?" (O, so if I'm a bad wife, have you ever thought of the instances when you've been a badly behaved daughter?). I responded saying, "O please, bolna bhi mat, jab mein kissi ki biwi banoongi naa..." (O please, dont even talk okay, when I become someone's wife...). I was going to state that I would be the coolest wife ever, but I let that thought dissipate and said instead,

"Jis khushnaseeb se meri shaadi ho gi naa..." (you know, the extremely fortunate guy that I get married to...)

which Mama completed before I could add anything else,

"...woh bichara bohot baadnaseeb ho jaye" (...will find his good fortune reversed into ill-fortunes after he gets married to you).

As usual, I had no comeback to top that and dissolved into a fit of giggles, agreeing with my mum**.

. Mum made dinner for me and just as she was done, looked at me, and started, believe it or not, rapping.

This is what she came up with-

"Yummy yummy

Made by mummy,

To fill your tummy"

[insert awkward pause where im just staring at her with a piece of samosa hanging out of my mouth and she's looking at me, which after a minute, she fills by adding the following line...]

"Dude, lets be chummy"

"Dude"

"Dude"

"Now I must go or Papa will make me gummy"

[exits kitchen]

* might I add that this was tongue in cheek. i hope you, the reader, is aware that there exists this notion of being obedient and thinking the world about your husband in South Asian communities. this was a play on that. i dont really want my mum to go to Hell, because im really hoping that at least in the afterlife, she'll leave me be.

** Edit Note- I'd like to say something. I told my mum that I was going to go over and blog about this and she explicitly said no, on account of people thinking that my mum is actually not a nice person and the fact that sometime in the future some guy may actually be really turned off, because common, when the girl's mum is so hell-bent on portraying her daughter as crazy, she must be crazy. but common, this was too awesome to ignore!

Abeerism.

What did the new Greek PM's dad tell him?

I am your Papa, Lucas.

Get it? Because he's Lucas Papademos?

OMG SO FUNNY.

Abeerism.

One day, when I grow up, I'm going to set up a company that will provide various sorts of software services to help aid people in making the most out of their phone. It will give them business solutions to optimise communication with clients/peers as well as help in maximising the utility of their devices.

The service company is going to be called

Hone Your Phone

We're the best call you'll ever make.

Alternative caption tags include-

Help us, help you call.

Call us for the best calls.

Abeer Appropriates!

You know you're doing something exceptionally right with your life, if at 22 you still derive happiness from a bar of chocolate.

Diss For Sale!

Know a male who you dont like and who to your convenience is also fat*?

Want to get back at him?

The next time you find yourself at a loss for a smart comeback, tell him,

"[And] pregnancy really seems to be agreeing with you."

 haw haw.

 Also, bonus line that you can use on your boy/girlfriend for when they piss you off:

"My love for you is like yesterday's bread- stale."

Also I made a joke. You'll get it if you know tennis.

So what did Novak say to someone who got insulted by his sense of humour?

"Chill out man, I was only Djoking."

Also I made another joke.

What did the African mother say to her rude child?
"Dont you dare talk black to me."

*- Kindly note that I in no way condone making fun of obese people. This is only to be deployed as a means of making fun of someone who would be able to take a joke like this. And maybe eat it too. Haw haw.

Diss For Sale!

Tired of saying 'your face' as a comeback?

Want to seem imaginative and innovative?

Well then, you asked for it.

The next time, instead of deploying the ubiquitous 'your face', think heavenwards, be a little celestial.

Say,

"God made you as a biology joke, didnt he?"

Mama O Mama!

So I've just come off dinner and Papa and I were teasing Mama about this prior thing, so she's a little on edge.

I say something to Papa (translated I'm bullying him about something) and Mama responds like, 'why are you saying that to him?'

To which I go, 'aap ko kya ho raha hai? aap ka blood pressure kyun high ho raha hai?' (whats it to you? why's your blood pressure rising?)

To which Mama goes, 'mera blood pressure high nahi ho raha hai, mujhe blood pressure hi nahi hai' (my blood pressure isnt getting high, i dont even have blood pressure).

To which I respond, 'I know. aap ke paas blood hi nahi hai*' (i know. you dont even have blood).

To which she goes, 'yeah, kyunki tu ne saara choos liya '(yeah, because you sucked it all out).

I spat my spaghetti out as a result of that.

*- I was trying to imply that she was bloodless like some kind of evil creature.

Edit: My mother just finished praying. As soon as she wrapped up the prayer mat, she comes up to me, mutters something and goes, "Allah meri bachchi mein se Shaitaan nikalde" (Allah, please rid my child of Satan).

Diss For Sale!

So this is a particular one I just came up with in like the last 5 minutes.

This diss is to be deployed, to my imagination, when you're talking to someone, say for example, saying something that is quite serious and they reply with something that just makes you think, 'Dude, just try for 2 minutes to not exhibit an IQ of -3'.

So anyway, this is how it goes.

You say your piece, the diss-ee reacts in a completely bizarre way and says something completely unacceptable. Right?

You, my friend, in response, start looking around, as though you've lost something.

Repeat this until the diss-ee cannot help but ask you 

"what are you looking for?"

Respond with, 

"Your brain. Pretty sure you had it a minute ago."

You're terribly welcome.

*Leaves audience full of standing ovation*

Love Me... Um, No Thanks. Its Okay.

Quite recently I came across this little 'shared' piece of pie going around Facebook, thanks to the public settings. This particular gem is about husbands (presumably Muslim, because the accompanying image is that of a burqa clad woman and her Muslim husband) and how they should love them. Its accompanied by a geniunely very cool quote about how Islam too states that women ought to be treated well and whatnot, but I cant help but feel absolutely loathe-some towards alot of the qualifying 'love her despite' points on it. I deleted three off the list, because they actually made sense, but if you can compare it to the original, then you know what those three are- and I did it because I wanted this post to be a rant-only post. Whee.

 

"Love her …when she sips on your coffee or tea. She only wants to make sure it tastes just right for you.

I’m sorry but since when did Love’s ultimate sacrifice become tolerating your spouse sipping your tea? Bitch if you cant be okay with me sharing your goddamned morning drink without reason, you sure as hell are going to be a pain when it comes to sharing a blanket. And joint bank accounts? Never.

Love her…when she asks you to play with the kids. She did not "make" them on her own.

What kind of a father has to be told to play with the kids? And what does the second line even mean (no I know what it means) ?!

Love her...when she is jealous. Out of all the men she can have, she chose you.

Trust me, there is no massage men love more than an ego massage. The moment a chick shows the tiniest signs of jealousy, guys like it – it proves that they’ve got game and have enough positive qualities that would fester insecurity in their woman’s mind. Provided of course that she doesn’t go psychotic on his ass and start accusing him of sleeping with every woman he even talks to.

Love her…when her cooking is bad. She tries.

What the fvck. Yes, that’s the ultimate sacrifice. Because if your bloody broccoli is over boiled, its reason enough to not love someone and with all your vegetative might, still attempt, try beyond your capacity to love her.

Love her…when she looks dishevelled in the morning. She always grooms herself up again.

Worth mentioning that Cindy Crawford herself once said that “even I don’t wake up looking like Cindy Crawford”. This point the author has made? Pathetic. Also, have you considered that she might look like a weather-beaten umbrella because she’s up all night…hearing you incessantly snore like a log?!

Love her…when she asks to help with the kids homework. She only wants you to be part of the home.

Seriously what kind of a father are we talking about here? What father wouldn’t even want to be involved in his own child’s education?

Love her...when she asks if she looks fat. Your opinion counts, so tell her she's beautiful.

Right. Your opinion counts, so if you think she looks like a big black plastic bag, say otherwise. Listen, not every girl is a retard, and when she wants your opinion (at least this is what I think) she wants your opinion.  And there’s always a nice way of saying everything. So don’t lie. Tell her the truth, but say it politely.

Love her…when she looks beautiful. She’s yours so appreciate her.

O yeah, because that’s really hard to do.

Love her…when she buys you gifts you don't like. Smile and tell her it's what you've always wanted.

Or maybe just throw her massive hints that you don’t want that peppermint cream tie she’s been dying to get you; instead state what pansy-ass multiplayer game you want; pretty sure a chick with brains will get you what you want.

Love her…when she has developed a bad habit. You have many more and with wisdom and politeness you have all the time to help her change. Love her…when she cries for absolutely nothing. Don't ask, tell her its going to be okay.

You have MANY MORE? What is this? Some kind of sick competition? Who knows who has what? What is this author smoking? Don’t ASK?! That’s the worst advice ever!

Love her…when she suffers from PMS. Buy chocolate, rub her feet and back and just chat to her (trust me this works!)

IM SORRY, SUFFERS FROM PMS? YOU'RE GOING TO GET IT LA.

Love her…when whatever you do is not pleasing. It happens and will pass.

HUH?

Love her…when she stains your clothes. You needed a new thobe (kurta) anyway.

Dude.

Love her…when she tells you how to drive. She only wants you to be safe.

NO. Nobody appreciates a backseat driver. It’s the worst experience in like, ever.

Love her…when she argues. She only wants to make things right for both.

Jesus H. Christ. Don’t love her. Bloody hell, reason with her! And who’s to say that she’s not actually right- I know tons of women who have egos the size of Panama; some women wont back down at anything.

All this forms part of a Woman's Character. Women are part of your life and should be treated as the Queen.

No, its not. Yes they are, and yes, treating them like Queens would be perfect. But please, if loving me means having to lie to me, or tolerate the fact that I drink your chai, please don’t fvcking marry me.

i tweet, therefore i am not.

July to September 2o11. 

Just because I'm still ill, doesnt mean you have to feed me krill. ):

ah the lovely loopholes of lacuna.

(@Tania R) You're so unoriginal it's bordering on plagiarism.

(@doppelhanger) "I was free on the weekend and falling in love seemed like a good idea then."

it takes a bastard of practised calibre to do what you've done.

o good ooogling God. commmmmonnnnnnnnnn!

The curious case of YOUR button.

of a time when what was once magical has now become murky.

(Nadiah)I guess "yang geli hati" is the old way of saying "and the fucked up thing is!".

You say Abeer, tu hai sar se neela, I say you, YOU sarsapilla!

remember how i said i hate people who make promises and give you their word and then back out? yeah, that.

How highbrow of you, Heathcliff.

"I mean seriously la, eat a bowl of yourself"- Shalini Julia John.

bring me close, spin me fast, hold us tight. swish.

wishes it was Bombay and Holi already.

my life is incomplete without a wire fox terrier.

I need to break up with my boyfriend. Aside from the fact that he's imaginary, he gives me waaay too much drama.

My two favourite words: food fight. Followed by my one favourite word: Africa.

UGLY PIMPLE, Y U NO BE DIMPLE?

Hi, my name is Abeer and my hair has bipolar disorder.

When I was a kid, I'd read the words Lager Beer as Larger Beer. I often wondered why it didnt come in servings smaller than Larger.

All this hungama, for such little drama? Hai Rama!

Your noggin is trollin'.

IF I was a werewolf, you'd be extremely fvcked.

Wind. #thingsthatmakemyday The blowing kind, not the flatulence.

got an email from her School's Secretary saying that she wished her little daughter was as active and cheery as me! #wordsthatmakemyday

If I could, I'd dye my hair grey.

Vhere's Voldy?

I'm sorry, I dont speak Bitch. Can I interest you in Sarcasm instead?

You're a pronounced pain in the posterior.

Is fraught with frustration no more! Wheeeeeeeeeeee!

Stuffed like a sacrificial cow!

You say ola, I say pavlova.

There is a place in England called Dumfries. I wonder where the smart fries go.

you know it means something when someone vouches to be your referee.

In the mother of all ironies, I have a missing letter in my Traveller Profile.

Rum is yum, but makes you a little dum dum.

There comes a time when you need to apply greater sense.

I love you like coochikoo.

You're tutu cute.

Write light and rid me of my plight.

Wishes people would owe her hoodies.

is in Vietnamese taxis, Abigail.

Ghoosa marne wali murgi - Boxing Chicken.

Dear God, I dont care if you dont give me a DSLR. Just please snatch away from those that dont deserve it.

Whats the scene, kidney bean?

My name is Abeer, but it could have been worse. I could have been John A. Boehner. HAW.

If your heart is pure, it wont burn. #Vietnam

Hugs only come in one flavour.

General Cuddles. Major Cuddles. Lieutenant Cuddles. Wheee, the possibilities are so exciting!

'What did you have for lunch? A country?'

Whats the scene, human spleen?

A flight attendant is called a trolley dolly. Cool noh?

I'm sorry, but I reserve to the right of the opinion that men look incredibly sexy in tailored black sherwanis with white pyajamas. AWYEAH.

And yet you forget. Tomorrow I will look better, but you will still remain a tactless bitch. Savio.

And if i were to say, pa da pa da parapapa da, would you say pa pa pa da da da rap papa rap?

Nothing is hotter on a man than a vocabulary. Word.

Harp, hark and lark. The new hook, line and sinker.

Keep blogs vacant, not minds.

Shunned, so I'm sunny now.

The world makes much more sense underwater.

Eat my desi dirt re.

God bless our help and may everyone have someone as smiley as her!

Perchance. Retraction. Such goodlooking words no?

Egg crates are by far the cutest pretend chess boards.

If being a writer means having the ability to reflect, then babeh I have loads of mirrors around me.

Of phobes and philes.

You know you're an Arts student when you read a 'Sustainable Development' book cover as 'Subaltern Development'.

"O boy do I have a cylindrical shaft for you". #wordsthatmakemyday

I look better in low resolution.

"He's not a friend la. He's fish food".

Bro, you need methylphenidate bro.

I wish I could live in a crumble bubble, then take the bubble outside and crumbles disappear.

No, I dont want to play A Hole and A Pole.

Sometimes I wish I could somersault just to express my general joy.

Just saw a tooth on a necklace. Who would want to buy a tooth on a necklace? (tooth is fake, but still!)

Whine, but dont ever pine. No one's worth it.

"I wasnt that drunk." "Dude, you were asking my cat why he killed Mufasa".

Man you make such absolutist statements.

Projectile vomiting is always funny. Until it happens towards you.

"One of them asked where I killed the pink elephant to get the pants."

Oh baby you're so foxy, you have so much moxie.

Talking to you is like subjecting my brain to 3rd degree Guantanamo Bay-style torture.

When I grow up, I will educate my children through Banksy's works.

Your existence makes me happy". #wordsthatmakemyday

This year's most critical buy- a copy of books with pictures of Banksy's works. MUST DO.

Dear slightly obese people, they're called skinny jeans for a reason.

Because it is only through discord that you realise how infinitely united you are. #londonriots

Whenever I think of how bad my day has been, I take comfort from the fact that it could have been alot worse- I could have been you.

'What doesnt affect me, is invisible to me' IS the main reason why we are in a society as apathetic as ours.

Does anyone fester dreams of going to a traditional British sweet shop to buy candy, because they've read about it in Peter and Jane? No?Ok.

"Sometimes I think that the one thing I love most about being an adult is the right to buy candy whenever and wherever I want."-Ryan Gosling

Why on Earth would anyone in their minds want to have their candy sugar-free?! Thats like wanting you want lyrics without music.

Abeer, in a court of idiots, you'd be crowned the King lah!

Okay so I'm thinking of renaming myself Abeer Snugglesaurus Yusuf. Or Abeer Huggablesaurus Yusuf. Or Abeer Cuddlesaurus Yusuf. Sound good?

'You're like a Post-It. You stick around'. #wordsthatmakemyday

Dyou have a billi or a billa? #onlyinindia

vIs it a baby or a baba? #onlyinindia

I'll be the Carmen Sandiego to your Waldo. Pakka promise.

Friend: "You my friend, are the only bridge between me and the desi world." #wordsthatmakemyday

Abeer, why is everyone running away from you? #shitmymumsays

Man, the brilliance that is some people's minds and generosity. Up in arms, we longer are.

Buy me a vintage typewriter and no one gets hurt.

Kutte, kaminey, har ek friend zaroori hota hai. I couldnt have said it better myself Airtel.

I dil you. Do you dil me too?

"I'm bringing Abeer. What are you bringing for entertainment?"

Remind me to remind you to not forget.

I cant wait till someone tells me something cool next, so I can reply with, 'thats cool like genda/chameli ka phools'.

I'll wear sprinkles, then wont you take a picture of me.

"Dude, you're the fucking cutest. You know that?" #thingsnuzhasays

"We have all got both light and dark inside us. What matters is the power we choose to act on. That's who we really are." - S.B., HP 5 film.

I end where you begin.

Death bears a potent reminder in what you forgot far too often- the purpose of life and the mark you leave on others.

"Are you going abroad to get a new boyfriend?" #shitmyfriendssay

Jack and Jill went up the hill to get a pail, Jill stayed up, She wants to learn how to jive an' wail. #louisprima

You will one day be used by a country to wage an intellectual war. They'll fight over which country is stupider and you'll be priceless.

Word limit? More like mind limit!

Postsecret: "I didnt feel like a child then, I dont feel like an adult now".

Make Lego models, not war.

You cant spell cover without over- which practically means the death of the original.

I wish I were cast as an extra in HP only so I could wave my wand once and feel like it mattered.

Friend to me: "OMYGOD if you think he's cute, he must be really ugly".

Friend: "Know any good looking guys? Wait, why am I asking you?" #wordsthatmakemyday

I'm sorry, but I think some food accidentally got into my oil.

Happiness is only so much fun, misery is more bankable.

I wonder if it takes George Clooney a long time to pee.

I like big bread and I cannot lie. you other butters cant deny.

Way to exoticise and compound stereotypes, Outsourced series.

Was at KLCC and saw monks-taking pictures of the Twin Towers with their very own digital cameras.

why this yours/mine dichotomy?

The hair is always better on the other side.

My mum to me while I was raving about my favourite snack: "Nabati? Not better than chappati". @taniarahman @scharahap #indo

Only those who have known war know the value of peace.

(nadiah) and those who see the end of war are dead.

Your prose, not your penis, should be gorgeous.

May we all weather these terrible storms and come out from it, making decisions right for those around us.

War deserves less apathy and more memory.

If only dust bunnies were made out of clouds.

The next time you want to say dude, WTF, you can just say dude, dont be so Japanese.

You know you're in good hands when your School Secretary sends you an email saying, "Abeer, you rock!"

If you dont have a magic carpet or a flying something or the other, I'm not interested.

Read, because you must; cry, because you should; laugh, because you need to.

"She's had the romantic, she's had the intellectual, how about all that in one fine little brown package." -Manny Delgado, Modern Family.

I wish my superpower was the ability to click my heels.

Hate the calories, not the candy.

That you are only human is not a valid excuse in football. Or Indian cricket.

Seen on Facebook- "My child's first steps will be dubsteps".

The first thing I'm going to do when I get a boyfriend is to call him 'darling darling mozzarella'. #GGM @kulvinderghir

Is part of the Rupe Troupe. Are you too? #rupertgrint #hp

Hi, I'm Abeer and I'm a hoot and 3/4ths. And you are?

Insert populist statement that everyone falls head over heels in love with, then retweets till it becomes a Top Tweet.

I absolutely despise and detest discussions on diasporic discourses. And so does Dinesh.

Boring banal brain.

Proliferation of pretentious people at parties- the idiosyncrasies of our identities.

Perhaps the greatest tragedy is that you cease to be human.

Reflective of a time, a people and a nation.

Express your opinion, but never step over someone else's. Maintain it, but dont silence someone else.

Yes Mr. Bartender, a double shot of nitrous oxide.

Probably the best bag pun I've ever seen- "The Hitchiker's Bag To The Galaxy".

No, I will deny being your cousin if you insist on calling me 'cous cous'.

You, kind sir, dont have a vestige of prestige in my eyes.

Mama O Mama!

Recently Papa was on the phone with his Filipino counterpart, and Mama and I both raised our eyebrows when conversationally he goes, "Yes pare, but you see ..." as though it was such a natural part of his speech and that he's familiar with Pinoy slang. So I look at Mama and I'm like what does 'pare' even mean (to the uninitiated it means friend in Filipino)? And she goes, "well see, Papa's talking to an uncle, which means its a he. That's why he's saying pare, pare is like pyaare (loved in masculine terms). Also personally I think they should have a feminine way to address friend too, like pari, like pyaari (loved in feminine terms).

Ask Mama what her favourite animation movie is and unflinchingly she will tell you, "Up". She does genuinely like the movie, because of the storyline and especially the life montage of Carl and Ellie growing old. But ask her what she likes best about the movie and she'll go, "the title. Because it is UP. Like Uttar Pradesh". Mama happens to be a native of UP, India.

So I woke up today morning not in the best of spirits, and was a bit of a grumpy bear. I lost all my grumpiness however, when I ended up saying "shahi chakkar" instead of "chai shakkar" (a simple spoonerism mistake where instead of saying tea sugar, i ended up saying royal round).  Mama proceeds to take hold of me, shake me while simultaneously saying "Abeer, get up! Its 12pm now! Abeer, are you okay?! Abeer, come back to life. Abeer, ARE YOU HAVING A HANGOVER?!" Let is also be known to the general publics that she has never been near anyone who consumes alcohol OR seen what a hangover looks like, except in movies.