There is something i wish to tell you. I like you and everything. Youre a fairly nice person, who's got a lovely voice and great expressions on your face all the time. Since you havent personally harmed me yet, I dont have much of a right to be telling you this, but i still want to, because i find it highly intolerable that youve been allowed to get away with this for so long.
Stop being so selfish. Reason? Its blood-plain obvious. For anything you want, you bombard people with questions and information-seeking quests. Its fine yknow. So do i. But at the end of the day, id like to believe that all the people i ask questions to, i also care about, to a relative extent. Simply popping up when you need help with your assignment resources, or dont know how to go about something or something completely menial isnt okay. Whats even MORE not okay is to pester them about it. Okay, so we get the idea. You want something. You're going to communicate with us regarding that. You're going to talk and rave on and on about it, and explore every little tiny detail about it. But what is not cool is that you're going to eat the person's brain raw until you attain what you want. It's not nice. Its very annoying and you must realise that people have problems issues and concerns that revolve a little beyond you.
I have always expressed my displeasure at both people who casually ask me how I'm doing without really caring about how I'm doing just because they need to exchange pleasantries before asking for favours/information AND those that get straight to the point without bullshitting around. Basically I dont like being anyone's Information Center, which is a strongly-stated sentiment Ive echoed on Twitter many a time. I dont like when you're being fake to me and asking me for information, because you dont care about me, but at least you have the decency to exchange pleasantries. I dont like it when you're to-the-point and concise about what you want, because its like you have no manners. Basically I'm a real girl, and a very annoying one.
Back to the original topic, which I seem to have conveniently forgotten. What pisses me off the most about you is that you dont hesitate even a bit, and just assume that everyone will be around, or would be willing to give you whatever it is your heart desires. We all help each other out, but when asking for a favour, kindly remember the most important bit- ask for it. Dont inform someone that you want it. Its as good as you ordering someone around. Appreciate the fact that someone else may have something more pressing, pertinent or important to attend to.
That is all. You have a lovely smile though. Dont stop smiling.
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